Fluffy, on 2012-December-21, 08:46, said:
The history of the past 600 years or so, in Western civilization, has seen a number of paradigm shifts, the effect of which has been to puncture the arrogance of religious teachings about our place in the universe.
It can be said to have started with the realization that the earth was not the stationary centre of the universe, around which everything revolved.
Then we realized that the stars were actually suns, such that our solar system was only one of a very, very large number.
Then we realized that we were the products of an evolutionary process that has no apparent bias towards creating us, as us.
Then we realized that our galaxy was not the universe: that our galaxy, immense as it is, is in fact a modestly sized one in a universe containing an unimaginably large number of galaxies.
Now we have realized that even the galaxies that we can see represent only a fraction of what is 'out there', in terms of dark matter and more recently dark energy, neither of which we yet understand to any degree.
Darwin wrote, at the end of his seminal work, that there is a glory in this (his evolutionary theory)view of things, and I agree. I think that realizing that we are so utterly insignificant in terms of our physical size and life expectancy and and yet we can understand so much about the universe and, as a species, are favoured to learn so much more, is an incredible source of wonderment and joy.
Wishing it weren't so, which is what I think you have chosen to do, doesn't change the reality. My advice: embrace the reality. Revel in it. Love the beauty of a universe that has through the vagaries of chance caused you to exist for however long you may live.
Otherwise, you are like someone offered a chance to visit the space station, who takes his sony playstation with him and never looks out of the window to see the earth pass below or the stars wheel above. The video game may seem comforting or even engrossing, but you are wasting your time.