gnasher, on 2012-October-05, 03:20, said:
I was West, in case anyone hasn't worked that out.
I think I made the mistake of thinking in absolute terms: "If the diamond was cashing, partner would have cashed it, so a spade ruff is the only chance." Instead, I should have approached it like most bridge problems, by estimating probabilities.
I should have asked myself what were the relative probabilities of (1) a 3♥ opening on a 4711 shape at green and (2) partner's cashing his winners in the wrong order, and playing the wrong spade on the second round. Those were both quite small numbers, but I think I should have concluded that (1) was smaller.
That's a good point, which again I probably wouldn't have considered. As it happens, this was three boards into the match and the opponents had just gone down in a game, so one wouldn't expect partner to be distracted by earlier boards.
Andy, I think you are being way too hard on yourself, altho my thoughts are somewhat contingent on who you were playing with.
if a client, then I think you ought to have got it right.
if a non-client and especially if a regular or potentially regular partner, then I think you defended correctly, for more than one reason.
I think there are two reasons why your defence was correct.
The first is that (for me, at least) the most effective way to learn is to screw something up and suffer consequences.
Any partner worth cultivating would immediately apologize to you after this misdefence and the error would operate as a lesson far better than would be the case if you 'saved' him from the error.
Secondly, as a matter of partnership trust, just imagine that he has defended brilliantly...that his defence was the only way to beat the contract, and you had refused to do so because you felt it more likely that he had screwed up than that declarer had made an offbeat call.
I have often played the wrong card and found myself hoping that partner would play me to have made a mistake....but in the long run I know I'm better off when partner assumes I knew what I was doing...it really helps reduce the sloppiness that underlies this sort of mistake.
'one of the great markers of the advance of human kindness is the howls you will hear from the Men of God' Johann Hari