The discussion is about who has the right to make the decision, not whether partner's decision might be in my interest. The others in the chow line probably think I am too fat anyway, and can wait.
This all just depends on one's political persuasion
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I happen to believe I should be the one who abdicates my (natural) rights, rather than someone else ---well meaning as they might be.