What do you think it's the best use of the time? Main issue is, do you prefer spending more time on actually playing some hands? Or do you like to spend big fraction of time on working detail agreement(e.g. discuss/practice in bidding room)?
If your answer is former, what type of opp do you like to practice(e.g. your friends/teammates, random people, strong opp if you can find)? If your answer is later, what type of partnership agreement do you want to focus on(constructive bidding, defensive bidding, delicate defensive carding agreement)?
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I have some non-perfect(though not terrible either) experience on working with different partners before. I've played with a system fan, where I learned a pretty long and theoretical near-perfect constructive bidding system where we got the agreement on the situation that happens about once each 2 years, and we played together on reasonable frequency, but in real events, bidding misunderstanding in common competitive auction charged us. I've also worked with a partner where we spends lots of time on agreement discussion(or, more accurately, I asked my p to agree what I said
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Maybe I'm a little bit too die-hard on this issue and not treating partner properly. I'm the kind of person if you say you want to play leb. after X opp's weak 2, I ask you what's the meaning of leb. 2N first then bid 3♠(opp open 2♥). Or if you want to play XYZ, I ask you what's the difference bet. direct 3N and 3N via 2♣/2♦. If you ask me to play crash against precision 1C, I ask you what's pass and XX after opp double our overcall and what's the minimum hand you overcall with. Sometime I even bother partner with the meaning of (1♥)-p-(p)-3S*. I like to list a long 2 pages rules about when we play takeout/penalty double or when we play attitude/count suit-preference signal.
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If you skip the line in between, basically I'm asking what should be a regular partner in bridge spend time on? If the focus is to improve the result at the event you play given limited time. Do you think getting a long system note/complicated carding agreement is unnecessary or critical, given the level of events I play? Do you think playing many hands with partner is critical to improve card-play, especially defense, as a pair?