What to do NOW? I had meant the 3♠ bid as a control bid looking to learn if p had any ♣ controls but apparently GIB thought I was asking for ♠ help to get to slam. Well, ok but when it jumps to 5♥ how am I supposed to find out about anything else? What should I have bid there instead of ♠ and how do I find out about any stopper short of a generic 4nt? Which, if p comes back with 1, still doesn't tell me WHICH one, as if it's trump and p has two clubs below the K we are still down in slam if opps lead ♣but if it's the A then 6 makes. Does the 5 bid specify something or other? mousing over the bid was totally unhelpful.
I appealed to someone (at another table, who couldn't see the hands so only went with the bidding ) who told me if I had the A or a void (I assumed she meant in the ♠ suit since that was apparently what the GIB was reacting to) I was being told to go to 7 which I dutifully did, only to find out that we are missing the A of trump!.
How do we get to the slam? If there is one thing that is disconcerting about the GIBS (there's more than one but) it's the tendency to leap levels of bidding for no apparent reason. Can someone explain what this all meant and how it should have gone?