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Fred, I agree with you 100 % about being practical over being subtle/theoretical in ambiguous spots, I hope you find me to be a practical player rather than kenrexford! After all, Bob Hamman and my dad were my biggest bridge influences, and to me they are both the most practical players around, focused on winning rather than having pretty auctions. As you know, I love to win!
That said, my biggest error was not considering/understanding how complex/ambiguous this situation was. I know since you have spent a lot of time with me recently, I am going to sound like a broken record talking about how being rational is the most important thing in life, and how overcoming our humanness/biases is what will help us become more rational, in both life and bridge, but that said...
I feel like I have a good grasp on what auctions will be ambiguous, and which won't. So why, on this hand, did I fail to see it (assuming you believe me that I was not just trying to make a good theoretical bid because it was pretty and I could win the post-mortem, which I'm sure you know is 100 % not the case. So what happened here?
Perhaps I got somewhat clouded/tilted, because had RHO passed 2H, I was going to jump to 3S which would be pretty obvious what I was doing. When RHO bid 3D, perhaps because I failed to get an opportunity to jump, my judgement was clouded about the downside of bidding 3S now. Perhaps I rationalized that it would be clear, because I wanted to bid 3S and have a cuebidding auction. Perhaps it was just being stubborn, ***** them for taking away my cuebidding auction!
It is funny, but it is a common error. You have a plan. Then something goes wrong. You are emotionally invested in that plan. Jumping to 3S was my plan. I was invested in it. I failed to reconsider and make a new plan when they bid 3D. Jumping to 4S seemed imperfect, my hand was too god, in my eyes. You see this thought error far more often in cardplay, especially defense. Like, you have a plan that will 100 % defeat the hand. Partner then does something else, despite how you signal. Now you're in. You stubbornly go back to your plan, when in reality partner had a different plan that would 100 % beat the hand. Now they're going to make. This is something I see commonly. You lose rationality for a moment.
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I am not trying to defend my bidding, but I do *strongly* disagree with your classification of my hand as a mild slam try. For those who don't know, my hand was:
AKT9xx Kx Kxx xx
To me, this hand is enormous. If you want to downgrade my DK, that is fine, but I would then say that you are undervaluing the THIRD diamond in my opinon. To me that is such a huge card, compared to AKT9xx Kx Kx xxx for instance. It is not a full trick better, but it is pretty damn close to me with partner having an extremely likely stiff. Even if they lead a trump, if you think partner does not have 3 spades (I agree), then my partners shape is 3415. So my doubleton club offers the chance to ruff out the suit. On top of that, if I have any club or heart finesses, I can expect them to be on...the honors are well placed. Give partner Qxx Axxx x AQxxx even. Even if hey lead a trump, this slam has a lot of play, and if they lead a non trump I would say I'm in awesome shape. I do not think partner would consider moving over a jump to 4S with this hand. Maybe it is possible partner is 3424, and the opps have bid a ton, but that is the exact reason I so badly wanted to have a cuebidding auction in my mind.
Maybe you do not play the same style as me, but I always cuebid with an opening bid and 5 spades, followed by jumping to 4S. To me that is what mild slam try means. I dislike jumping to 4S on a hand like that, when I would also jump to 4S on KQxxxxx x xx xxx (a gambling type bid that does NOT want partner to pull, and is not HCP rich, so partner with a double and bid again hand can comfortably pass without a strong fit). I would cuebid with AJxxx xx xxx AQx followed by jumping to 4S.
Again, I am not saying my 3S bid is right, I no longer think that, and in fact when Sheri and I were talking about this hand with people afterwards I *fully* admitted and apologized that this was a very complex auction, and I actually said something very similar to what you said "in ambiguous spots, good/logical people can both make logical points for something different, nothing is obvious." It is really a good point that people should remember. But I did think my hand was much better than a mild slam try, maybe that is just optimism, but it is what contributed to me so badly wanting to jump to 3S over 2H if RHO passed, and have a cuebidding auction, I definitely wasn't going to bid 4S over 2H to show the mild slam try, or courtesy slam try. In fact I'm kind of thinking maybe the right bid was 5S over 3H right now...or maybe that is crazy. Maybe 3S then move over partners 4S? I will think about it, let's talk tomorrow.
1: With which sort(s) of hand(s) would you cuebid 2D as North? A good hand with no other clear-cut descriptive alternative
2: How high are North-South forced? Until we've supported a suit, reached game, or clearly established a misfit.