I prefer to respond 1
♦ here: indeed, I cannot imagine raising
♣. We should always get back to
♣ when it is right to do so, and, when it is not, we are ok.
However, the fault (if there is any) was not in the 2
♣ response, but in the pass of 3N.
This responding hand is worth more than 16, because of its wealth of controls. I would raise to 4N, which is the bid I would make in response to a strong 1N opening bid.
However, I view this as a minimum hand for the auction, because it lacks a 5 card suit... the 109x of
♦ tip me towards bidding: opposite any honour, there is a good chance that these 2 cards, in combination, may be worth a trick.
As for north, he is on the cusp as well: 16 hcp... right in middle of the range, and he has a lack of aces.
So I would not be greatly upset about missing this slam: it is hardly cold
I am sure the hand would not be posted by you had slam failed: maybe then the post would be by someone else: 'how to stay out of slam'.
'one of the great markers of the advance of human kindness is the howls you will hear from the Men of God' Johann Hari